Fashion is YOUR Choice

Fashion is YOUR Choice, Thursday, February 19th, 2015.

Fashion is your choice. You wear what makes you comfortable. I read a article that a young girl wrote and she posted a picture of her wearing a sports bra. I'll post below the picture and her statement which everyone should take a look at because you should wear what you want without judgement. 

Girl's shouldn't have to be slut shamed for it being hot out and wearing what they want to wear. Guys run around shirtless and nothing is said to them, but if a girl wears a crop top it is the end of the world. Wear what you want and what makes you comfortable. If you want to wear short shorts and a crop top you can. No one should tell you what you can and can't wear. Fashion is a form of emotion and expression and defines you. It doesn't make you a slut for wearing more revealing clothing. Our society should of taught men that they shouldn't stare and they shouldn't think a girl is this way based off her clothing choices. Like i remember going to catholic school wearing jumpers and our teachers would tell us we had to wear shorts under them because the guys would look under when we would bend down or sitting. Those types of things lead to how people feel about what they are wearing. It is not a excuse to tell someone they would be raped wearing revealing clothing because people get raped wearing anything like in the story. This is just a example on how you should wear what you want. If you want to wear sweat pants you can, if you want to wear a skirt you can. Fashion is however you want it to be. You saw a new dress you can wear it. You don't have to be famous just to pull a outfit off. You have to be you and not care what other people think. And people shouldn't care what you wear. It's YOUR choice. Never forget that. And don't be one of them people shaming on what people wear. That is how our generation loses our kids expressions in fashion because of other people judging, if it's what they like, let them be! Everyone should know how it feels. If you like that colorful scarf or just them plain black pants, wear whatever you want, whnever you want. Fashion means you. There are a million “pretty girls” out there. Dont be a clone. Be you. Wear whatever the hell you want. It doesnt match? So fucking what. Someone else doesnt like it? Tell them to go fuck themself. Their opinion does not determine if you keep breathing or not. I saw a girl post once. "I walked by some girl at work and she turned to the person next to her and said “omg, id never be caught dead in that.” I stopped and turned to her and replied ” And thats why you could never be me.”" Respect. Styles are genderless. Whatever you are running from is your head. Peoples opinions dont matter. You're the mermaid, why care about what the shrimps opinions are saying? "But nothing feels as good as being free in the clothes you wear." I use to dye my hair bright colors, everyone knew me for the bright red and pink. I got made fun being called wendy to all sorts of mean and crazy names. I never let it get to me, I never changed my hair for them. It expressed me and made me feel good that I could show them who i was and wanted to be. I would run around school wearing high schools and get all dressed up some days to others being in sweat pants and a big hoodie. I never let anyone phase me and I never will and you shouldn't either. 

John Mayer once said: "Promise me that in next two to four months you’ll figure out a way to wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do, listen to what you want to listen to, and just be yourself without worrying about other people coming down on you."

xoxo, Jackie Kensey